Imagining Syria
Making Sense of the Senseless…Â
by Missy Beattie
After Charles died, I tried to convince friends and acquaintances that complaining — squandering even a minute of happiness — is an extravagance they’d regret. Eventually I realized that death of a spouse or loved one couldn’t be understood until it’s experienced.
Maybe that’s protection, insulation. Really, how could we approach each day if we knew at the molecular level the agony of bereavement?
I think of this now when I hear the blustering of men devoid of empathy. Of women barren of compassion. Those too blind to see.
This morning when I ran, I passed a sign in front of an enclave of alley shops. It said, “Who’s Nextâ€. Syria. Syria is next, I thought.
A few weeks ago, when running, I heard a man on a phone, a pay phone. “This is the United States of America and this is my son I’m talking about.†I’ve noticed him before, with several bags, asleep on a bench, wrapped in a blanket despite the heat. I’ve thought about him, wanting to know more. Wanting to know what he meant when he said, “This is the United States of America . . .†(more…)
blinked? Of course the world almost ended, but never mind.
This is the time, as the next war strains to be born, amid the same old lies as last time, amid the same urgency and pseudo-debate and pretensions of seriousness:
Opposition to a U.S.-led attack on Syria is growing rapidly in Europe and the United States, drawing its strength from public awareness that the case made for attacking Iraq had holes in it.
The top stories on Google News this morning (Monday) are chemical weapons in Syria and Miley Cyrus’s gyrations and crotch grabbing as she performed “We Can’t Stop.†We. Can’t. Stop.
Gloria Anzaldua, who has been one of my heroines since I first read her seminal work Borderlands/La frontera back in the 1980s, always insisted that queer folk have a special role to play in bringing about a change in human consciousness — moving us from the patriarchal mold of the past 5,000 years or so to what she called “a new mestiza consciousness,†a much more holistic, inclusive, planetary awareness.